Why bother with a counselling approach designed with men in mind?

The answer is quite simple: you will be more balanced, and better relationships come with more balance. I will not say you will be happier; who knows what that means anyway! Nor will I say that you will not have...

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Groups should help you be a better person

One of the issues I often encounter in the counselling room is the distinction between us and them. The creation of what is, inherently, a false distinction between other people and me, or the group I am in and...

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A lie shouldn’t replace reality!

In a previous post, I wrote about the impact of the rule of law on human flourishing; and how the elites are replacing reality with lies. This post continues that general theme. Something that has been exercising my mind in...

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COUNSELLORS NEED TO HAVE A BREADTH OF KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE

It is wrong to assume that one approach to counselling will fit each client. I have had male clients for whom a feminine approach to counselling helps them more and female clients for whom a masculine model works better....

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