COUNSELLORS NEED TO HAVE A BREADTH OF KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE

It is wrong to assume that one approach to counselling will fit each client. I have had male clients for whom a feminine approach to counselling helps them more and female clients for whom a masculine model works better....

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LET’S TALK ABOUT MAN-RULES!

LET’S TALK ABOUT MAN-RULES!

Despite many global studies showing the benefits of counselling for men, a 'man-rules' culture dominates the male approach to mental health and fitness. In part, the counselling model, with its feminine bias, is a block for men. Developing a...

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HEART, MIND & WILL: COUNSELLING FOR MEN BASICS

HEART, MIND & WILL: COUNSELLING FOR MEN BASICS

Counselling for men needs to engage our hearts (emotions), minds (intellect) and will – along with having a strong practical element. Many clients come to counsellors seeking something of a miracle. Immediate relief is preferred; if not, answers to all the...

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Grounded counselling: practical counselling for men

A chapter in an edited book on grounded theory (Glaser, 1994) changed my perception of grounded theory and my development of the grounded counselling approach. The chapter was titled: "Grounded Therapy", written by Odis Simmons. I first read Simmons' work in the...

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