BE MINDFUL – BOOST MENTAL FITNESS

To understand what it means to boost your mental fitness using mindfulness and self-awareness techniques, I invite you to do something that looks simple. Stop what you are doing and fold your arms in front of you, across your...

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BEING MINDFUL ISN’T COMPLICATED: BE AWARE!

BEING MINDFUL ISN’T COMPLICATED: BE AWARE!

Being mindful means being aware of what's going on around us and within us: understanding what we are doing and why. Much has been written about what it means if you fold your arms in different directions, but that is...

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COUNSELLORS ARE COMMUNICATORS, NOT RESCUERS!

COUNSELLORS ARE COMMUNICATORS, NOT RESCUERS!

Why counsellors are communicators, not rescuers. Counsellors are communicators. Communication lies at the very heart of the counselling process. Without good communication, counselling is pointless and somewhat dangerous. Dangerous because unless we follow the core principles of counselling communication, we...

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ALPHA MALES JUST WANT TO BE HEARD, BE SEEN AND BE LOVED

ALPHA MALES JUST WANT TO BE HEARD, BE SEEN AND BE LOVED

A quick thought for Sunday morning. Even the most alpha of alpha males wants three things: to be seen, to be heard and to be loved. The chest-thumping, the destructive behaviours, or the anger, simply forms a veneer of...

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